I tried to “fix” this using xdg-ninja but then gave up and resorted to just creating a .home in ~ then running usermod -d ~/.home. Then I just symlinked my documents and .config and etc. folders to my “real” home.

I want to just mention frp, I use it to get around firewalls

uh, i did?

can u explain why its a bad idea?

id say it’s basically tcp with a password

try ctrl f on the readme?

I don’t know much about, stuff, but maybe look into SoftEther VPN?