Is OP sour because the message was unsent before they agreed? Or tearing sexual innuendos towards minors are a pretty mild thing in Romania?

I mean, my comment isn’t really meaningful either so, touche, Internet stranger.

There’s babashka, why?

Oh sorry, misread exactly this part. I’ve had great experience with ejabberd, maybe worth trying it.

Which flavor of XMPP you tried?

Thermorectal cryptoanalysis.